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My child is getting their first phone: what should I do before handing it over?

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Short answer

Before handing over the phone, set it up together: create or supervise your child's Google account, turn on Play Store parental controls, set a screen lock, agree on clear family rules, and install a safety app such as SAFE for location and an SOS button, with your child knowing exactly what it does.

Checklist before the first day

  1. 1Google account: for younger children, create a supervised account with Google Family Link.
  2. 2Play Store: open the Play Store, tap your profile picture, then Settings, Family and Parental controls, and choose age ratings for apps and games.
  3. 3Screen lock: set a PIN that both you and your child know.
  4. 4YouTube: for young children, use YouTube Kids or a supervised YouTube experience.
  5. 5Safety app: install SAFE Child, link it to SAFE Parent and add home and school as places.
  6. 6Emergency: show your child the SOS button and when to use it.

Family rules to agree on

  • Where the phone sleeps at night (outside the bedroom).
  • Phone-free times: meals, homework, bedtime.
  • Never share their location, school or photos with strangers online.
  • Tell a parent right away about any message that feels scary or strange, without fear of losing the phone.
  • What you as a parent can see, and what you can't.

Why transparency matters

Children who know what is monitored and why are more likely to come to you when something goes wrong. SAFE is built for this: the child's phone shows every active permission, and nothing is hidden.

Frequently asked questions

What is the right age for a first phone?

There is no single right age. It depends on your child's maturity and needs, such as going to school alone. Many families start with limited use and more freedom over time.

Should I read all my child's messages?

Reading everything usually harms trust. A better approach is alerts for real risks, such as worrying words you choose, and an open conversation.

Is a basic phone a better first step?

For some families, yes. If your child needs a smartphone for school or transport, set it up with the checklist above.

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